Best Laugh on Intimacy and Romance (2)

Any marriage or relationship that is not growing is getting weak, and dying.

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Episode Title: Prioritized Romance (Christian Perspective)

Source: MarriageToday Audio Podcast with Jimmy and Karen Evans (https://now.xomarriage.com/videos/prioritized-romance-jimmy-evans)

Myfwl Quickies:

Difficult Lane Men Walk

  • A lot of people believe that romance is for women and ‘strange men’. So, if you ever see a man in a romance section of a bookstore, …
  • As a man, know that the idea of a romantic activity that you share with your wife has a short life expectancy. But it still means a lot that you came up with something.

Being romantic is saying …

  • You, my spouse has a place in my life that no one else has.
  • You, my spouse is special, and there is no one else like you.
  • You desire me.

Being romantic makes me …

  • Like the way I feel about myself.
  • Feel wanted and attractive.

To be Romantic is to …

  • Go into your spouse world and meet an unspoken need or desire.
  • Speak or show love in your spouse romance language.

Do you want to know how to keep winning your husband? Show up periodically naked, and bring food. Note, the food is optional.

Men’s Major Romance Needs

  • Respect.
  • Sex.
  • Friendship (as buddy not mother).
  • Domestic support.

Women’s Major Romance Needs

  • Security (including having a selfless and sacrificial man).
  • Open and honest communication.
  • Nonsexual affection.
  • Leadership.
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Best Laugh on Intimacy and Romance (1)

Communication is important to your wife as sex is to you.

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Episode Title: The Secret of Ultimate Sexual Fulfillment (Christian Perspective)

Source: MarriageToday Audio Podcast with Jimmy and Karen Evans (https://now.xomarriage.com/videos/the-secret-of-ultimate-sexual-fulfillment-jimmy-evans)

Myfwl Quick Tips – Introduction

  • The Best Sex in marriage comes when one partner serves the other.
  • Chemistry will come and go, same with physical attraction.
  • Libido will not always come at the same time for the man and woman.
  • A man need to be his spouse’s dream maker, serving her.
  • You can’t be intimate with someone who is selfish.

To have a great sex night, be connected with all her life, all day long.

Myfwl Quick Tips – For the Man

  • Be romantic in the woman’s language, especially outside the bedroom.
  • Be sensitive to the Stress Points in her life.
  • A woman’s biggest needs are non sexual affections
  • Number one need of your wife is security.
  • Number two, open, patient and honest communication. The more you talk to your wife, the more sexual she becomes. 

Myfwl Quick Tips – For the Woman

  • A man want to be respected, and honored.
  • Men have the DESIRE – NEED for sex, and that is why they keep coming back to their wife. Women have the GIFT of sex.
  • A man is most vulnerable, when having fun, sex with you. Even a closed up man, who won’t talk will open up if this gift is used wisely.

NOW THAT THE KIDS HAVE GONE – What to Do BEFORE YOU EXPERIENCE it

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Source: “FamilyLife Podcast Network.  https://www.familylife.com/familylife-podcast-network/

Author Jill Savage talks about the freedom, and the challenges, of the empty nest. Savage remembers preparing for the time when her kids would leave home and being surprised at how hard it really was to adjust to a quiet house. Hear some sound advice from a mom who’s been there.

NOW THAT THE KIDS HAVE GONE

  • Their wives will be number one in their life, as it is supposed to be. But that means, I am not. I used to be number in their lives as their mother.
  • A couple says, 6 or 7 weeks after their last son had gone to college, they got a call one night from Domino’s, just checking to know, is everything okay. No kids’ orders!
  • It feels like being fired from the job you’ve been doing for years. Just when you are at your prime of being a good parent.
  • Identify crisis questions like, ‘Who am I right now?’ comes up.
  • I can’t ask the same questions that I used to ask anymore, because it is no longer my role.

WHAT TO DO BEFORE YOU EXPERIENCE IT

  • Not just, what will I be doing, but most importantly, who will I be spending time with when they are gone? If that person will be your spouse, how are you embracing, developing or neglecting that relationship now? Develop or fix now, the most important relationship(s) in your life, outside of the kids.
  • Your kids will still need you, but in a different way; as cheerleader, coach, or encourager. But beyond the kids, who else will be out there that will need your nurturing? Who are you allowing now to be your own coach and encourager or you are walking the journey all by yourself with your own cook book of little experience?
  • You will need to let go of guilt. What you did well or didn’t do well for your kids. But, why not work now to reduce the likely reasons for guilt later? Making every parenting pain, season, events, request, a grateful privilege to respond to or handle, before that opportunity and privilege pass you on.

Greatest Love Story

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Source: “A LOVE STORY” by Pastor Keith Battle of Zion Church, Maryland, USA.

What ever you neglect will die on you!

Marital Happiness: Cookie Box or Golden Recipe

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Source: ‘What Makes a man in Today’s World’ from Knowledge for Men Podcast with Steve Harvey.

Don’t just remember the Cookie Box alone. Real, simple, golden recipe for Men to have a long, happy marital relationship:

You can be Happy, or You can be Right!”

Be happy and work things out with your woman, just listen to her.

Keep trying to be right and you’ll ALWAYS end up with arguments which you will never win.

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